Ah, Mother’s Day!
A day just for moms
everywhere. Where dads try their best to take over parental responsibilities. Where mothers
get to let go for at least a little bit. Where, later that day, dads sheepishly admit to their wives that, well, being a mom is hard.
We had the day planned … planned, I tell you.
To start, our lovely church
decided that the dads would pinch hit for the moms in kid’s ministry (normally
a mom job). After church, Kristine had an afternoon with both of our mother’s all
set up at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens.
Lunch, flowers, walking, being outside, the three of them enjoying just being
with each other, probably all wondering aloud how strange it is to be around
such other great moms. Seriously folks, the three of them put together are like
a Superhero-sized team of Mom greatness. If there were a Mom Olympics, the
judges would throw out the rulebook and give each of them gold medals. Maybe
two each.
Then, well, a little thing called parenting
happened.
Saturday started off normal but turned in to,
well, not what we planned for. I’ll spare the details, but suffice to say all
that great stuff about finally
relaxing during a church service, about being
with nature and flowers and lunch and conversation and laughing with each other, about just being for a few hours
without the kids. Yeah, none of that happened. But at least we have a really, really clean house.
But the shame of it all is that Kristine missed The. Most. Amazing. Thing.
Remember that church I told you about? They
let me know Saturday that they were going to give Kristine a gift during the
service. I thought “Hey, that’s really nice. The mom’s will all get a little
gift during service. How sweet!” Well, nope, that didn’t happen either. Before
the sermon our Pastor gave a short intro speech to the congregation about
wanting to honor a specific mom for her service to the church. For her
dedication to the kid’s ministry. For showing up each week happy. For working
hard to make sure that other people’s kids are safe, are learning, are growing.
For having the longest commute of anyone in the congregation (36 miles! One
way!!). And then again for turning right around and returning to Atlanta on
Sunday nights to go to small group (on a side note, she wouldn’t miss small group
for the world. As she’s said time and time again – that’s her church).
Yep, that’s Kristine. I couldn’t have
described her better myself. I know, I already knew all these things about her.
But there is something extra special, something truly moving in watching her be
honored in front of and next to all the other great moms at our church for her
dedication. For her commitment. For her service. And well, for her all around
awesomeness. All the things I’m privileged to see everyday. If our kids turn out to be half the woman she is, well, that's winning in the parenting department.
So, maybe it wasn’t the Mother’s Day she had
in mind. Maybe the best-laid plans went to waste this weekend. But the most
amazing thing happened anyway. And next week is our anniversary and we’ve
already been offered baby-sitting services by, well, those other awesome mom’s
Kristine was supposed to go the Botanical Gardens with.
Did I tell you how awesome the moms in my
life are?
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Happy Mother’s Day!